The Secret to Life & Love?

~ Strategy ~

Everything Begins with Love

Properly orchestrated strategies in love can create a fertile ground
for self-care, communication and strengthen relationships that matter the most.
Strategically opening your heart and mind allows more happiness to flow freely into your life.

Your Strategy?
Take a chance, put your heart out there, relax and enjoy the roller coaster ride of dating and love.
A boring, mundane life never suited anyone – so GO FOR IT!

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Strategies in Love

The test of love comes over time, the time beyond the honeymoon phase.
It's in the long-term that our capacity to maintain the energy of love is challenged.
Thinking that love is self-sustaining forever is a mistake, it takes work.
Work for love - chase it just like you did to get that first date!

Respond Empathetically

Just as being transparent with your partner strengthens intimacy, letting your partner know that you understand him or her by responding empathetically is one of the most powerful tools for keeping your relationship emotionally close. Actions speak louder than words. Support each other in all you do.

Disagree Effectively

Research finds that couples who report strong relationship satisfaction actually disagree often. Their secret? They disagree better and don't let it linger! Own your part, use humor, be kind with your words, keep in mind "does it really matter?" and most of all LET IT GO. Being right isn't everything and love is worth more than anger.

Foster Collaboration

Happy relationships stem from positivity. Incorporate that energy in all you do. No matter what the task, do it together! Grocery shop, help with laundry, attend school functions with the kids. Being by your partner's side, even with the mundane day-to-day tasks just reinforces your connection and communication.

Create Trust

Trust is at the foundation of any relationship. The need to trust and be trusted continues throughout the life cycle of love. We are more likely to have good relationships and succeed in whatever we do when our relationships are based on trust.

Speak from the Heart

Feelings are the voice of the heart; real openness strengthens intimacy. When you tell your partner what you are feeling and speak from the heart, you are being intimate and that strengthens the relationship connection.

Commit

There is a quote we love - Love is an unconditional commitment to an imperfect person. To love somebody isn't just a strong feeling, it is a decision, a judgement, and a promise.

Open Your Heart

Don't stress, love will happen, just coast the waves of dating, and have some fun.
StrategiesInLove.com knows dating can seem overwhelming, but think of us as your strategic partners in love!

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Fear Nothing - Go For It!

Your Strategy? Breathe, stay calm, and focus on the areas in
which you can improve your relationships and discover
the myriad of possibilities that will unfold before you.

Let this be the year that you deepen your relationships
and find the love that you truly deserve.

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Dating: The Struggle is Real

Online dating frightened me to death - I admit it. Meeting up with strangers, so many stories about horrible experiences and dead ends, why bother right? But I stayed open-minded and kept everything light-hearted with no expectations. Games? I didn't want to play games, and I was very up front about that in my profile and everyone I spoke to. Settling? No way, I was not settling for mediocre this time. Johnny and I started chatting online, and then via phone for a few weeks, and although I really didn't think we had a ton in common, I agreed to meet up for dinner anyway. I am SO GLAD I took a chance because he was amazing in person! Funny, smart, intelligent and everything I was hoping for! Leap of faith I guess, sometimes you may not feel a connection immediately on the phone or chatting, but take a chance! So happy I took a leap of faith and joined - thank you so much.

- Johnny and Jennifer, April 2019